If you’re wondering why your child is behaving 'so badly' you’re not alone. Children aren’t naughty on purpose - there’s always a reason behind their behaviour. This reassuring guide helps you understand strong-willed behaviour, set boundaries with empathy and see things from your child’s perspective.

You know that feeling - you’ve missed your child all day, you’re excited to see them at pick-up and then… meltdown. They’re crying about the wrong snack, refusing to get in the car or snapping at their sibling. You’re left wondering: What happened? Welcome to after school restraint collapse - a very normal, but often misunderstood, part of childhood.

If your child is hitting and kicking, it can feel worrying and even overwhelming. But this behaviour is often a sign of big feelings rather than 'bad' behaviour. By staying calm, pausing before you react and guiding your child towards safe ways to express themselves, you can teach important coping skills and reduce aggression over time.