Being a calm mum isn’t always easy - especially when life feels nonstop. But learning how to be a calm parent has changed everything for me. Through years of trial and error, I’ve discovered that positive parenting starts with taking care of myself first. These simple self-care tips for mums have helped me find balance, patience and joy in the chaos - and they can help you too.

If you’ve ever shouted at your children and instantly felt awful, you’re not alone. Every mum I know - even the ones who look calm when they’re child is screaming in a busy shop - has lost her cool at some point. Parenting is beautiful, but it’s also loud, relentless and emotionally exhausting. When we’re tired, touched-out and running on empty, patience wears thin - fast. So let’s get this straight: You’re not a bad mum if you snap. You’re a human being with limits.