If you’re wondering why your child is behaving 'so badly' you’re not alone. Children aren’t naughty on purpose - there’s always a reason behind their behaviour. This reassuring guide helps you understand strong-willed behaviour, set boundaries with empathy and see things from your child’s perspective.

You know that feeling - you’ve missed your child all day, you’re excited to see them at pick-up and then… meltdown. They’re crying about the wrong snack, refusing to get in the car or snapping at their sibling. You’re left wondering: What happened? Welcome to after school restraint collapse - a very normal, but often misunderstood, part of childhood.

If your child has started telling lies, you’re not alone - and it doesn’t mean something is wrong. Lying is often a normal part of development and even shows that your child is learning problem-solving and perspective-taking skills. The key is not to panic but to respond with empathy. By creating a safe, supportive environment, you can encourage honesty, build trust and teach your child that mistakes are part of learning.